Have you ever met someone (or perhaps you) who
really wants to KNOW how things are going to go down?
They want to be assured of definite plans and so it's difficult
to make decisions and take risks.
This is called having a big safety and/or certainty need.
People with a big safety need will you look for the stars
to align or to be given some clue from the Universe that
they're making THE right decision before they move or
act on something.
Each person has this need, but it's bigger in some than
Personally, I grew up in a very unpredictable household,
because I never knew what mood my dad would be in
and how he'd treat us, especially my mom.
As I've been peeling the layers of the onion and looking
at my wiring, these vulnerable and anxious feelings are
more at the surface than ever. They are there to remind
me that I'm living in my anxious past even though it's been
almost 40 years ago.
Our feelings will do that. Even though the circumstances
are quite different and we're now adults, our feelings will
take us right back to our roots. So let's pay attention...
Often times we will make enemies of the people in our
lives, because they "stir up" feelings within us, like mud
at the bottom of a pond. We really don't want to blame
them for these feelings, because it's nobody's fault, not
So what can we do about this? What if we took a different
stance towards our emotions? What if we could just accept
them, stop resisting them?
Our body and our emotions are always giving us signals
to do something different. If we really want to LIVE,
fully embrace our joy, peace, love and prosperity, the
things that we really WANT to put our focus on, then we
need to begin paying attention to our bodies and emotions.
When we do this, when we start to FEEL our feelings and
stop avoiding them, when we start to FEEL our bodies and
stop ignoring its messages, we are READY.
Ready to fully seize life! As always, I am not claiming to be
your guru. I'm an ordinary person with an ordinary life, with
a desire to overcome my fears and insecurities and play
life full out.
If this feels like a journey you'd like to embark on, then please
keep checking your emails. Comment below what you're
doing to really LIVE life or maybe not...
If you're living in perfectionism, where you're afraid to take
a risk on yourself and move forward, because you really
have to KNOW how things are going to look before you'll
If you are leveraged by your emotions and your body,
feeling stuck in circumstances, then are you READY
for something different?
Reply to this email...let's have a chat...NO obligation
to do anything, just a chat to see if you're ready. If not,
To Living Full Out,