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Is the fear of rejection hurting your bank account?

Angie Monko - Wednesday, September 27, 2017

How safe do you feel in the Universe?  
Do you feel that you can trust the process of life? 
Or is the other shoe always about to drop  

Looking back at my life, because I was taught
that money doesn’t grow on trees, and it always
seemed that my desires were greater than what I
could have, I felt deprived.

I felt deprived with getting the love I wanted from
my dad. So I tried to fill that void with getting safety
from food and trying to control the world around me.

I found great comfort in food; it helped to relax me.
I tried to control my physical surroundings and keep
them neat and organized. 

People were tougher to control. I couldn’t control my
dad’s temper and how he took it out on my mom. I 
couldn’t control how my grandpa talked disrespectfully
to my grandma. I couldn’t control that people I loved die.

I certainly couldn’t control my own thoughts and 
feelings.  They were the worst! So was life safe?
Could I trust it? Absolutely not!

So am I saying that I WOULD have felt safe if my
dad had showered me in love, like my mom and grandma?
I can’t really say that… probably something else would
have occurred that would have complicated my story and
made me feel insecure.

Isn’t that how life is?  As soon as we try to rely on 
someone or something (food, events, others’ actions,
our environment) outside of us to make us feel safe and
trusting, we are fighting a losing battle.

What if there was a better way? What if we could finally
relax and surrender into the process of life, trusting that Life
always supports us no matter appearances.

 

A tough practice, right? Yes it is, and none of us will ever 
master the practice, because we are human and imperfect. 

So what it comes down to is how we decide to look at life.
To what extent can we choose and want what we have right
now? Our ability to make peace with life on life’s terms 
greatly determines our happiness.

On a flight home from Paris over 4 years ago, I felt 
inspired to create a recipe for True Prosperity, where
we feel OK, secure and supported despite outer circumstances.

When we can begin to feel secure and grateful regardless
of how much money we have, how much we think people love
us (or don’t), how attractive we are or how much we weigh, 
and we begin to embrace the beauty around us NOW, we are 
free to experience True Prosperity.

Are you ready to explore this type of True Prosperity?
What do you have to gain?  That depends on where you’re at
in life, but the feelings of freedom, joy, peace and love are the
possible rewards.

Our society doesn’t focus all that much on these types of 
rewards, but rather there is a tendency to focus on STUFF,
material gains and luxuries, image, status. And that is OK 
too. What I teach is not for everyone. 

Remember how I said that I felt deprived because I never
felt loved enough by my dad? Well, many people feel unloved, 
and this feeling can leave us feeling vulnerable, hurt and rejected.   

When we feel easily rejected, prosperity can elude us.  We won’t
take risks to put ourselves out there. We will feel like we don’t 
deserve prosperity. We’ll feel insecure and not speak up for what
we want and need.  

Would you like to explore how to overcome the fear of rejection
and finally feel worthy and deserving of True Prosperity, feeling
free and satisfied with your life?   If so, click here.

To True Prosperity,


Angie Monko

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