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How do your relationships impact everything?

Angie Monko - Tuesday, June 27, 2017



How do your relationships impact your life? Well...
they touch every aspect of your life, don't they?

When you're feeling happy and joyful, your body
functions better (lots of science to support that).

When we feel healthy and happy, we feel more 
purposeful. We care about the impact we have on
others.  We are more creative and resourceful and
get good ideas to make and receive money.

I don't need to mention how having healthy 
relationships affects our peace of mind and how
we identify, our self-worth.  It's a given that we 
will have much harmony and fulfillment when we
can get our relationships in order.

So why are relationships so darn hard? What can
we do?

What I've found is that the biggest block to having
healthy relationships is the very STRONG compulsion
to blame another for HOW we're feeling.

I'm totally guilty of this too.  We will cite things like, 
"It's cause and effect. If they wouldn't have done this
or said that, I wouldn't be feeling this way."

But is that true?  It seems SO true!  But it IS NOT.
Most of us are wounded.  We are hurt and traumatized
by our past and others' actions.  

It is OUR PAIN that reacts to others' words and actions.
It is OUR PAIN that triggers our hurt feelings, only 
always. I've been taking a deeper journey into myself
through using meridian tapping, an energy technique
to help us become aligned with our best selves.

It's opened my eyes to the fact that none of us will 
change until it feels safe to change. I realize how wounded
I am by getting a "guided tour" of the Angie character by
my own mind.  

I'm 47 years old, and it's taken this much time for me to be 
ready to see why I truly overeat, why I hold onto this excess
weight, why no diet or exercise will ever work to fix it, why I 
push myself so hard to work, why I neglect intimacy (defined as
vulnerably connecting) with those who mean the most to me...

Why I use TV to numb out instead of feeling my feelings...
why I stay so very busy....

It ALL comes down to this.  I don't want to FEEL my PAIN.
The true irony is that I've hidden behind my self-care routine
all these years.  You see, I thought I was taking good care of
myself by doing daily yoga rites, meditating, doing a gratitude 
journal.

I thought I was walking my talk.  I was to an extent, to the best
of my ability.  What I WASN'T doing was tapping on my feelings.

We won't tap when we feel trapped, because it's a very 
immature side of us, who isn't resourceful, who's in control 
at these times. AND we don't see our own stuff.

One could be the best massage therapist in the world but
have a difficult time rubbing their own back, right?

I'm SO excited to be feeling my feelings now.  I get weepy a
lot more, because I sense my little 5-year-old-girl within is much more 
present.  She's finally ready to be healed. 

I'm not sure what your past looks like, but mine wasn't pretty.
I grew up feeling frightened and anxious because my dad was
full of rage and hurt my mom. I learned to soothe these feelings
with food, TV, over-accomplishing, staying busy.

Would you like to begin to FEEL again?  I've been de-sensitized
to my emotions and pain, and I didn't know it. Through my own
personal self-guided tour of Angie's life, I am now better equipped
to love, accept and forgive myself, not just intellectually but truly
in my heart.

I'd love for you to join me on this beautiful path to inner
discovery, because I believe it's much easier when we join 
together.  There's no shame in admitting our shame.

I've been ashamed of my body, my feelings of fear and sadness,
my disappointment, my business results, myself in general. So
what? I claim all of these feelings now, and I also claim my
light, my power, my love, my strength.

I deserve to be happy and healthy. So do you...if what I've 
shared here resonates with you, please reply to this email.
I'm starting a special tapping event on 7/13 to help you feel
your feelings and open up to your best self.

It's by invitation only, and I'm only accepting 20 people. If 
you haven't received a personal invitation, no worries. I still
have a few slots left.  Show me you want this by replying
back.
 It's a nominal investment of $25, and I'll be doing this
monthly on second Thursday from 6-8pm.

Let Harmony Harbor help you shine your brilliant light! Let's 
be as silly, playful and real as we want.  After all, when we get
the relationship right with our self, it positively impacts every-
thing!

Supporting you all the way,
Angie Monko

 

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