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Are You Ready to Make a Decision?

Angie Monko - Saturday, June 02, 2012
Making a decision is the toughest job you have to do.  I spoke about this last time. 
You will try every trick in the trade to avoid making a decision that requires you to
change the status quo.  I know from personal experience. Have you decided if you
want to be healthy?  Have you decided if you want to have loving, harmonious
relationships?  Have you decided if you want to have wealth and a fulfilling career?

If you aren't on your way to achieving those things, then you have opted for something
else. Oh my gosh the ego is SO conniving and deceptive!  It will absolutely convince
you that you need to have the sugar, the wine, the drama in your relationships which
shows up as complaining, criticizing and gossiping, and the need to be right, the
struggle with money, the hectic schedule, and so on. It will convince you that 1 +1 =2,
and so if something seems logical, you better believe it.

Follow me on this.  I have an accounting degree and so I understand the logical flow
of revenue and expenses, the bottom line.  I was taught how debits = credits, how to
budget, how to determine a profit or loss, etc.  Money comes from a certain source
which can be predicted, right? What I understand today is that sometimes our
"knowledge" can leave us ignorant.  For many years, I struggled with feeling there
isn't enough money.  My knowledge of finance and accounting led me down a path
of closed mindedness when it came to money. 

Sometimes knowing too much is a detriment, because we close our mind off to other
solutions. So yes, I know 1 + 1 =2 in the mathematical world, but if I'm always so worried
about where my money is coming from and having everything add up, I'm focusing on
the wrong thing.  I'm focusing on lack rather than abundance. It's obvious how certain
choices serve us in life.  Food gratifies us in the moment.  When we complain it gratifies
us because we are getting people on our side and to feel sorry for us, and I'm sorry,
but this IS satisfying, especially to the ego, whether you want to admit it or not.

But you may wonder, "How does feeling like there isn't enough money gratify me in the
moment?"  The answer is less obvious, but it's there.  The answer is that if you think in
terms of lack which leads you to have emotional fears around money, you won't take
action to create more money and you won't think of ideas or options or possibilities.
How does this serve you? It keeps YOU SAFE!  It keeps you stuck in the comfort zone
of mediocrity.  Your EGO's biggest function and job is to keep you SAFE. 
Well, what if you decided that you'd rather have lavish abundance rather than play it safe? 

That's a huge decision!

I have a new method of helping people get clear on what they want and then how to make
a decision, and this works!  It comes clear from my heart and my own experience.  Isn't it
time to stop messing around with your precious life and just move forward?  It doesn't
matter whether your goal is weight release, a wonderful relationship, or extreme wealth.
I can help you get there, BUT you must decide first. 

PS:  If you’re really serious about creating your most magnificent life, click on the attached to see
if you qualify for a discovery session: http://www.harmonyharbor.com/discovery-session

PSS:  Do you have friends and family that are also interested in creating their own destinies of
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Lavish Blessings to YOU,

Angie Monko
314-422-6520
Comments
Angie Monko commented on 23-Sep-2014 01:39 PM
Hi Linda,
Sorry it's taken so long to reply. I just now reading your comments. Where do you live? Is it possible to meet locally for lunch or something? Please give me a ring (314) 422-6520.

Blessings,
Angie
Anonymous commented on 23-Sep-2014 01:39 PM
Hi Angie,
Thank you for being you! It has taken me 56 years to finally make a decision to move on and stop looking back so much. In my life I have overcome street drugs, cigarettes and alcohol. Made a decision to be happy and healthy and learn everything that I can. It has been a long, very lonely at times, journey to the bottom and back, to my life and to where I am now. Somehow, even though I do not know you in this life, I feel like you know what I am saying and how I feel.

I have chosen to take the journey alone because its a very personal journey and no one knows what the answers are except me. I have considered being a life coach because I have much experience to share. But, here's my thing. I feel like there are so many things that I can do and I have just so much time left on this earth. I am toying around with being a Physical Therapy Assistant, but I dont really want a "job" like being tied down to certain place.

I am a free spirit and I like to travel around. Thats what Bill and I do. I also have a conflict of interest going on. My husband Bill is a USAF Veteran who has spent 44yrs working for them. He has seen the world literally, I havent. I feel very commited to showing him the free and beautiful side of life, everything is not work. We have known each other for 30+yrs and been together for 7yrs. So, if I am working all the time I wont be able to be there for him and my dog. His health is also questionable at times.

I am not asking anyone to make a decision for me, only what you would do in my situation. Life has become very precious to me, and my dog even more. MissyLou is my budd, she is a brittany and just the sweetest girl I have ever known. We are looking for another Brittany to join us, so if you know of one who is looking for a home please let me know. I have been working with Binarual Beats for meditation and that works very well,but the jury is still out for hypnosis.

I would love to know what you think and even meet you for a possible friendship.

Sincerely, Linda
Jamie Bonett commented on 23-Sep-2014 01:39 PM
Angie very well said, I love this. Its very inspiring!


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